Contraceptives

This IS about birth control even though it may not look like it! Read on.

On Wednesday, NBC will be premiering its new reality TV show, The Baby Borrowers. Will you be watching or will you dismiss it in favour of Big Brother? Grab a friend, preferably your partner and watch. The series is a social experiment showing how teenage couples , ages 18-20 will, over the course of three weeks, experience what it is like to have to cope with all aspects of an instant family, babies and all. The teenagers will have to set up a home, get a job and becoming caring and attentive parents - first to babies, toddlers, pre-teens and their pets, teenagers and, finally, senior citizens. Has this anything to do with contraceptives and birth control? YOU BETCHA! With 3 decades of ‘family planning’ ahead of every fertile female, take note of how reality will bite if you DON’T plan when to have your children ( I am in awe of those wonderfully stoic women/foster parents who adore their 6 kids and are perfect mums!)

Okay, okay , as a mother of two, I admit that in ‘real time’ all of the above does not happen within 3 weeks but the bottom line is - it DOES happen once that little bundle of joy appears on the scene. You DO have to deal with the demanding nitty gritty of child rearing and the relentless ‘daily routine’ once that first flush of partner passion has subsided (note I did not say romance or love here) Unless you are a member of the Royal family or have film star status, once you give birth you jolly well don’t get a ‘life’ rewind button or your own ‘live- in’ little Lem Sip men to take over the baby care or bail you out of ‘debt damage’ when you can’t make ends meet. Don’t get me wrong- in my opinion, having children is one of the best things I ever did and one of the hardest jobs I’ve ever had and though I could NOT have afforded more than 2, I think I could have reared a couple more. Bringing up kids when you are ‘ready’ and when you have the TIME to nurture and teach them properly will make life a whole lot easier for you and everyone else.

SO…. be prepared, be safe, watch the show and let me know what you think!